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April 5th 2015 3:33 pm
Mommit email

Keeb~We were so busy celebrating you on your birthday this 4/2, it completely slipped by me to write on your web page. So here it is, with a heart full of ongoing love: Happy birthday, Pearl of my Heart! And infinitely more....Mommit

April 2nd 2014 5:19 pm
Mommit email

Me, Teeb, and the Cuzzies are holding you in our hearts with sooooo much love today as we celebrate you turning 33! When I look at the moon, I see you dancing on the stars....Love the bobbit to the nth power...xoxoxoxo M.

June 8th 2012 4:56 am
micah intrator email website

I love u so much Kaia !

thought & felt you a lot tonight
& then you played me Kaya on Pandora.
Almost called Xela - Kaia tonight.

miss u so much !

April 2nd 2012 1:25 pm
uncle jeff email

hey niecelet ...

how in the world would you be 31 today ... time flies and seems to be doing so at warp speed, whether times are good or not. i miss you, niecelet, and love you very much.

April 1st 2012 11:20 pm
Mommit email website

Now I understand why yesterday was so special: It knew today would be your birthday. Know as you read this you are truly the gift that continues to give yourself. I feel ever surrounded by~and filled with~your love...Happy, happy birthday, Pearl of my Heart~xoxoxoxo M.

August 20th 2011 1:33 pm
micah email

Love U So Much Kaia ! Miss u still, and loved feeling your hand on my head yesterday morning.
Thank you for being u !

April 2nd 2011 8:32 am
Mommit email

Bobbit~Happy, happy 30th Birthday to our Pearly Mae Parker!!! Xe, Micah and I are going to the meadow at Lockridge to release 3 (biodegradable) balloons (with tootsie pops and notes to you) today to celebrate and applaud you as you move into (and through) your 4th dimension decade.


December 13th 2010 7:23 pm
Mommit email

Your papa called tonight. It was a wonderful holiday gift. I'd been thinking of him on and off all day and can't help feeling you've had a hand in this. We're both so thankful we came together to make YOU~our radiant and irreplaceable babycakes. Was listening to Sarah McLachan's "River" and feeling you.....Love and miss our bobbit.

August 19th 2010 2:08 pm
(uncle) jeff glenn email

hey niecelet ...
it's hard to believe it's been 10 years, time flies!
how you doing up there? you must be having a ball looking down on things today! you would absolutely love and adore your little cousin, hunter. i hope you're taking him in.
i miss you ...
uncle jeff

April 3rd 2010 6:34 am
jeff glenn email

niecelett ...
me, again ... i guess by now you've caught the mistake in my last entry ... you're right, i meant to say "i hope you have NOT run out of shopping outlets ..."
nothing has ever gotten by you.
more love ...
uncle jeff

April 2nd 2010 5:50 pm
jeff glenn email

hey niecelett ...
just wanted you to know i was thinking of you on your birthday.
i hope you have run out of shopping outlets and are staying busy walking the runways.
i love you ...
uncle jeff

August 30th 2009 11:14 pm
Elizabeth Gibbard email

It's late and I'm thinking about you girl. We all miss you so much. xoxo

August 19th 2009 8:46 pm
Xela email

Kalossal-----Couldn\'t sleep last night thinking about you. Miss you and love you so much!

April 3rd 2009 5:53 am

Happy belated birthday darlin'...with every year I think I miss you more. Every year I get older, I am reminded that you will not. Forever in my heart & mind the way you were that last summer. I love you and miss you terribly.
XOXO Wilder

April 16th 2008 7:17 pm
Xela Ariel Intrator email

So, I have never really, truly, been able to relate this site to the amazing person of you, Kebitz. Only, because you were so much more than an amazing dancer and so somehow it is, or has been hard for me to relate to those that didn\\'t know what a special person you ARE! Have been googling and searching for you all night. Wish I could find you other than in cyberspace. Love you schlamiezal, xoxo, schlamazal

April 2nd 2008 3:28 pm
Mommit email

Pearl of my heart--of all the girls in all the worlds and all the planets and all the solar systems and all the universes--of all of 'em and all of 'em, you're the girl this mama loves the
best--Happy, happy Birthday! xoxoxoxo M.

April 2nd 2008 11:58 am
Erin McGovern

Just wanted to wish you a happy birthday- I wish you were here so that we could all celebrate together!!
I miss you!!!

October 20th 2007 11:46 am
Michelle email

I just wanted to leave a note. I have a 2 year-old daughter named Kaia, she's named for my great granddaughter. I found this site on a random search, and I wanted you to know that I read the site, and that now there is someone else in the world who will remember your Kaia.

August 19th 2007 10:08 am
Lee Glenn email

...holding Keebit tenderly in my heart today...Mommit

April 3rd 2007 12:43 am
Brett Schlank

Happy Passover :)

April 3rd 2006 2:07 pm
Lee Glenn email

Bobbit--Yesterday was like the day of your birth--picture perfect. Filled with light and air and breathtaking beauty.

Did you make a wish when I threw your penny in the pond? You were an answer to mine 25 years ago...of all of 'em and all of 'em, and all of 'em and all of 'em, you're the girl this mom loves the most!

August 19th 2005 8:24 am
uncle jeff email

hi niecelet ...

it's hard to believe 5 years and 4 hours have passed since your grams called me about the crash. i miss you more than ever but you're always following me around which helps alot. how 'bout a little privacy once in a while? i'm afraid to bring a guest over (know what i mean) because i know you'll be perched on my shoulder. the bolshoi's in town. by now you should have your own production going ... the kaiaa ballet or the bolshoi kaiet.

ok niecelet i've gotta go ... knock something over once in a while.

i love you ...

uncle jeff

June 19th 2005 5:20 am
uncle jeff email

mornin' niecelet ...

that's southern california for north carolinean 'howdy!'

yesterday, out of the heavens (express mail) i received your card wishing me a happy father's day with lots of hugs and kisses. between you and melissa (whom i saw for lunch yesterday) this is one of my BEST father's days ever!

as you know, each time i walk by your picture we talk so i'll just leave you with a big THANKS and I MISS YOU!

many HUGS and KISSES for you too, niecelet :-)


uncle jeff

May 19th 2005 2:27 pm
Larc email

Hey sweet thing.I have been thinking about you for a very long time. I want to let you know that I'm sorry. It was a while after your passing that I found out. I was in NYC at the time and Danny mentioned it in passing. I felt the earth fall off it's axis for a moment. I am sorry for not visiting more and for not keeping in touch better when I left for the big bad world. Now I happen upon this sight years later and my eyes well up with tears again. I wish I'd known about this sight, about this fund. I wish that I could have danced for you. So, I am done crying now and I am done wishing on things I can not change. Tonight I will dance for you, and you will know I love and miss you. I do, I miss you so much.
Love Forever,
Your Larc

May 17th 2005 9:46 pm
Matt Richards email

I went to Duke Middle School with Kaia. She had no clue who I was and I don't think we ever even exchanged words. But, nonetheless I remember being so strikingly compelled by her. She was so elegant--especially for a 7th grader--and I distinctly remember being impressed by her style (i think i recall amazing hats . . .) and the grace with which she carried her body. Thankyou for this site. It is a really moving testiment to her spirit.

April 9th 2005 10:42 pm
Erin email

Plaease let me know you are alright- I love you.

April 2nd 2005 4:48 pm
jeff glenn email

hi niecelet ...

been thinking about you an awful lot this past 6 months, since breaking my ankle. while rehabing at your grams, with your picture next to and above the bed, i felt as if you had been keeping an eye or two on me. that hasn't changed since being back home and i've loved having you around, except for those moments one would like a little privacey to do what one must do IN PRIVATE.

you already know home much you're missed.


i love you ... uncle jeff

April 2nd 2005 7:03 am
Erin email

It's one of those days that is extra hard not having you around- your birthday! So here is to you- Happy Birthday!!!! We miss you always and your a constant in our hearts. I love you.

April 2nd 2005 5:17 am

With all my heart:

Happy Birthday, Pearly Mae!

March 22nd 2005 11:28 am
Wilder email

As I'm sure you know Bethy has left us and gone up to NY to attend culinary school. Although I am very proud of her for persuing this dream, I already miss her terribly. I find that having people I love leave causes me to think of you. In my sadness over Beth moving away I find that you float in and out of mind and it causes me to miss you both that much more. I truly do miss you, and often wonder if you would have stayed here in NC or if you too would've followed you dreams to another destination. I must believe that you would have followed you dreams to the end of the world, just as Bethy does now. You inspire us all, every day. Miss you. Love you. Always.
Kisses, Wilder

March 4th 2005 2:55 pm
Brittany Parker email

I stumbled across your web page while I was browsing the internet while looking up others with the name Kaia. I gave birth to a beautiful little girl on Feb. 18th 2005, and we named her Kaia Grace Parker. When I saw your website I was suprised and wanted to see what it was all about. I read her introduction and was saddened by your loss. I am very proud now that there was someone like your daughter that shared such a beautiful name with mine. You are in my prayers.
The Parker family{Sacramento, C.A.}

February 18th 2005 6:55 am
Jessi email

Hello beautiful, I haven't thought of you in a while, but today I really miss you. With so much going on in the world, a moment thinking of you is not wasted but treasured. I continue to dance and pursue this because, like you dance is everything to me. thank you!

February 8th 2005 11:00 am
Wilder email

I miss you. I miss you so much that sometimes I wonder how we all made it this far without you right by our side. I realize that you are watching us, urging us to make the right decisions at any point during the day; but sometimes I just want to see your face. I feel your presence in the wind around me, and know that you will always be there. Selfishly, I sometimes find myself wishing you were still physically here; but am able to take comfort in feeling your spirit all around me--encompassing all those you love. You will always be a part of my life.
I miss you. I love you.
Forever your friend, Wilder

February 6th 2005 9:20 pm
Jacque Merritt email

Dearest Kaia,
If you were still here I would tell you that my adopted daughter, Maia, was going to be named "Anna" until your brother, Steve, came to Vietnam the day after I met my daughter in the Vietnamese orphanage for the first time. He was carrying you in his heart (spring 2002) through the mountain villages, and we spoke of you to the moon above in the town of Sapa. The young man who led us through the villages had just had a new baby whom he named Mai, and I put this together with your name and found my "Maia". You will forever be remembered when I write Maia's name and think of how you always stuck in my head after I met you that summer in Santa Monica. Now, when I watch Maia's 3 year old self dance in the Nebraska moonlight, I sometimes think of you and the spirit you left behind on this earth.

February 1st 2005 7:56 am
Erin email

To our Kai pie,
I think about you daily and miss you dearly. It hurts to know that you won't be able to share all those special times- such as birthdays, weddings and graduations- with your best friends and family. But we know that you are looking down at us all. We love you and miss you more than you could ever imagine.
All my love,

January 2nd 2005 6:46 pm
Lyn Steuart email

Your spirit lives on in such a beautiful and expressive way. I had the honor and the pleasure to enjoy the annual alumnae dance performance at Friend's School that is held in your honor and to support the Fund in your name. To behold the talent, creativity, artistry, musical talent, and community support was such a delight. I laughed, I smiled, and was captivated! There is no doubt you are missed and loved. You have left a legacy of your love of dance in the hearts, souls and bodies of many young people and given enormous pleasure and appreciation of dance to those of us who witness the creative expression through the artistry of the dancers. Thank you and I hope you enjoyed the performance as well........Lyn

January 1st 2005 6:12 pm
jeff glenn email

niecelet ...
you'll always be missed, and the sound of your voice addressing me as “uncle jeff” will forever ring in my ears … wishing you a happy new year ...
i love you, niecelet ... uncle jeff

December 11th 2004 7:17 am
Mommit email

Happy Hanukkah, sweet pearl! Love and miss the bobbit immeasurably...

November 29th 2004 8:00 am
Steven Kirsh email website

I think of you often especially when I hear the song, For a Dancer. I wish we would have had more time together.

November 11th 2004 11:30 am
Barbara Cain & Laurel Cain email

Hi- We saw your mom at a lecture on Tuesday, and were quite shocked to hear the news of your passing. Love and Blessings -I know you dance on!

August 11th 2004 6:15 pm
Holly Strother

Kaia-- Thankyou so much for everything!! I will use them with love and care. You are in my thoughts often.
Much love, Holly

July 19th 2004 9:08 am
Micah Intrator email website

I love you Kaia!

Thank you so much for providing me more clarity in my life. You are the sweetest angel I've ever met.
Thank YOU for the HUGS!
All My Love!

April 2nd 2004 2:17 pm
Mommit email

P.S. Did you see me release your birthday balloon in front of the ballet school? Did you notice I bought you a red tootsiepop just like you like? And did you see me give it to sweet papa for his son?

April 2nd 2004 2:15 pm
Mommit email

Keeb--Happy Happy Birthday babycakes!!!!!
Hope you're somehow aware of the barbee balloon I bought for you and the Charlie Brown/Snoopy balloon from your big brother. We all miss the bobbit so much and send you wheelbarrows full of love....Mommit

September 11th 2003 3:31 pm
xelossal email

Missing you a lot lately. Who ever knows that a family is this fragile before they actually lose one of their loved ones. There are so many levels that we operate so differently on now that you have left. You better give me a shout out soon girl. I want to squeeze ya so bad. Everyday that I've been finally growing my nails out (willpower) I think of yours and how I was always amazed and impressed by them and forced you to give me back scratches even when it was the last thing you wanted to do. I love you Kalossal smoochhhhhh!!!!!!

September 11th 2003 1:55 am
Holly Strother

I wish I could have known you. I just met your mother the other day and I am overwhelmed by her strength and beauty. She is such an amazing women. You are missed by so many people and even some who weren't fortunate enough to have known you have been touched and moved by your life and beautiful spirit!

September 6th 2003 10:47 am
Wendy Intrator email

Dear Kaia-I'm such a stupid butt! I didn't know I could be writing you messages all this time! I miss you so much especially lately. It was wonderful seeing the lost video off you talking,laughing, and dancing. Auntie Wendy

September 5th 2003 6:52 am
Kaia Glenn email

El moley rachamim, shochen bamro-min. hamtzeh menucho nechono al kanfey hashchino, bemaal os k'doshim ut'horim kezohar horokeea mazhirim, es nishmas Kaia sheholock leolomh, bavur shenodvoo z'dokoh b'ad hazkoras nishmosoh. B'gan eden t'hay m'nochosoh. Locheyn baal horachmim yastireyoo beseser k'nofov leolomim ve'itzror bitzror hachayim es nich-mosoh, Adonoy hoo nachlosoh, veyonauch al mishkivoh, besholom venomar omain.

O G-d, full of compassion, Thou who dwellest on high! Grant perfect rest beneath the sheltering wings of Thy presence, among the holy and pure who shine as the brightness of the firmament, unto the soul of Kaia who has gone unto eternity, and in whose memory charity is offered. May her repose be in Paradise. May the L-rd of mercy bring her under the cover of His wings forever, and may her soul be bound up in the bond of eternal life. May the L-rd be her possession, and may her repose be peace. Amen.

August 19th 2003 2:22 pm
Xelossal email

I miss you so very much. It has been very hard without you and I really miss cuddling and talking and giggling with you. I don't have that kind of easy physical affection with anyone anymore. Remember, when we used to make people wonder if we were lovers. No, just seemingly incestous cuzzies. I hope that when I check my inbox tomorrow you've let me know that you are o.k. and that I'll be o.k. without you physically in my life because the loss is with me everyday. I'd really like a heads up on that please!!!!!!! I love you Kaia, Xela

May 26th 2003 6:45 pm
xela (shalossal) email

Kalossal--I love you and miss you so much! We just unearthed a video of you dancing and laughing and interacting. It is a true treasure for us. Shlamiezal, Shlamazal, paps and paps incorporated. Kaia, I love you soooooooooo much and feel your absence daily! xoxoxoxo, cuzie/Shalossal/Xela
For those of you visiting the website that didn't know her that well I want to stress how truly witty she was. She was real quick with good comebacks and making me laugh when I didn't think it was possible.

May 10th 2003 3:01 pm
Rebecca Kastleman email

Although Kaia never knew me well, I will always remember the way her grace and happiness shone through on stage. What a kind and inspiring woman.

February 4th 2003 11:30 am
Patricia Albornoz

Dance is a gift. And equally is life. So when you are lucky enough to experience both in the form of one being hold on as long as you can. I do not know the family but applaud their beauty.

December 4th 2002 12:09 pm
Christina Conley email

This is a beautiful website; I just happenned upon it and it made me cry. Kaia inspired all this love, you can just feel it even over the internet, it's amazing.

December 3rd 2002 6:13 pm
Roland Intrator email

kaia----your bright being never failed to lift my spirits as you do at this moment...

November 2nd 2002 5:44 pm
Lee Glenn email

Keebit--the apple, orange, orchard of my eye and pearl of my heart...Mommit

October 29th 2002 11:57 pm
Micah Intrator email

My dear cousin who I love and miss so very much, is a very special light that will forever shine in my heart and mind.
She is an inspiration to many; to me, Kaia is that and much much more.
Her love and passion for life has lifted me through these difficult couple of years, along with the support from our beautiful loving family.
I miss you Kaia...

July 31st 2002 7:39 am
jenny chloe and David email

Miss you sweet thing.

July 18th 2002 3:13 pm
Madeline Serrano email

I first met Kaia as a gorgeous and very skinny full of energy pre-adolescent. She was such a special light such a special child. Someone who once you meet you never forget, someone who always seemed to have angels swirling around her lovely head. I just got off the phone with Lee her mom and have learned for the first time of Kaia's death. I am devastated by this. Lee is an amazing woman which is no surprise when you think about the incredible children she raised. The apple doesn't fall far from the tree.

Kaia, I will always keep your memory fast in my heart you were a special and wonderful person and I know you are an amazing spirit now. I consider myself extremely blessed that our paths crossed many years ago and I thank you for all you taught me.

All my love,


December 24th 2001 7:36 am
christine kemper email

You're in my thoughts.

December 21st 2001 4:44 pm
Roland Deal email

A moving and inspiring testament to Kaia's life... keep up the good work!

September 26th 2001 4:15 pm
Steve Glenn

Miss you, Kebe.

August 27th 2001 5:26 pm
Aaron Goffman email website

Hello all...thanks for a lovely web site, and a lovely memorial. I wish that I knew Kaia better, but I feel blessed that I am part of this loving family. Hope to see you soon..... AG

August 27th 2001 12:32 pm
Chris Deamos email

A beautiful thing from a tragic event...

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